Poems from a Foreign Land 27 July, 2008
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Dear2 was away on a business trip recently, and took the chance to gather herself and do some workout everyday. While waiting for time to pass while waiting for the meeting(s) to start, Dear2 started to take out a pencil and write. Here goes:
#1 HAPPY HOLIDAY
Take a little break
Have a little rest
Clear your mind a bit
Cleanse your heart a while
Go the extra mile
Take the extra effort
Give your extra best
After your happy holiday
#2 GOALS
G is for greatness, of what you wanna be and wanna do
O is for ordinary, of being ordinary and humble at all times
A is for aspirations, for setting higher standards for thyself
L is for ‘Let’s do it’, just do it and let’s get moving
S is the sum of all the above, so let’s get started and let’s get going
#3 A NEW BEGINNING
Dawn marks the start of the day. Cool, crisp air; Birds chirping; Break of dawn.
Dawn brings the start of life. Men working; Women toiling; Hand in Hand.
Breathe deeply, inflate your lungs. The air recharges you with energy.
Breathe deeply, start your smiles. The cheer gives you a headstart today.
#4 OF TREASURES AND CHERISHES
The biggest treasure is gold
Yes, with gold prices going high, they are worth a lot more now
The biggest treasures are diamonds
Yes, tough and glitters, they are a woman’s best friends
The biggest treasure is family
They stand by you, in times of good or bad
They spur you on, in times of poor or wealth
They cheer you on, in times of ill or health
They love you all the same, even when you hate
The biggest treasure is family
So, like a treasure, you cherish them dearly
#5 BEING WHAT YOU ARE
You are what you are
You are what you am
You are ‘J’, I am gay
You are 27, I am going 30
Be mindful of others’ feelings, that is called consideration
Be cautious of others’ needs, that is termed caring
Laugh hard, cheer much, influence wide
Sing loud, care more, sow your strengths
I cannot control the world, I cannot pace society
I can firm my believes, I can be who I am
Take charge, flex your wings, soar the sky
I am who I am
- Dear2
Actual Day Photography 24 July, 2008
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We just booked our actual day photography package last weekend. Another hole in the pocket. :(
The photographer was introduced by our make up artist. During our first meet up with the photographer, we were surprised that 2 of them came to meet us. After some chit chat, we realized that they were a couple and were both in this line. They showed us their portfolio and tried to sell us this item of wedding journalism. Hmm… At first it sounded cheem to us, but the jest of it is that by hiring 2 photographers, 1 can concentrate on the main event such as on stage and table to table photos, while the other can go around capture news worthy scenes around the entire event ground. The result of this is that the guest looked natural and more expressive. Looking at their portfolio, that is indeed the feeling we derive from the photos. So call candid shots but manage to capture a lot of emotions. Furthermore, considering that they are a couple, there will be a certain level of chemistry between them such that they do not get into each other’s way during the actual photography session and that they will be able to cover each other’s blind spots, something that can only be found in teammates that have worked together for some time, 默契. With all these considerations in mind, we signed a package with them. Again, this time we chop chop curry pok, signing up with the first service provider we met, unlike last time where we found 10 quotations for our renovation before deciding on one. So long as we’re satisfied, no need to get the cheapest rate in town. So here is the package:
- All photos will be returned. Expected: 600 shots and above.
- 300 selected photos, digital touched up, developed and returned with slot in album.
- 2 photographers.
- 10 hours service per photographer.
- Rush-edited photo montage of day event to be really for dinner screening.
- Properly-edited photo montage of day event for keeps.
- Total cost: $1588.
After asking about their overtime rates and such, I managed to work backwards to derive the individual cost of each item. Photography service is charged at $50 per hr, so 2 photographers for 10 hours is 50 x 10 x 2 = $1000. Reasonable enough. The montage costs $200 (discounted from $300) for the afternoon work of selecting compiling editing and producing. Also reasonable. So that leaves $388 for developing 300 photos, album and the right to all the photos taken on our wedding day from morning make up session right down to the end of the wedding dinner. Sounds good. Communications with the photographers are also well enough and they seemed experienced from the way they explained their work.
Right, so that’s one more wedding item off the list. Still a page full of items to go. Ganbarimasu!
58 days to wedding.
-Dear1
The green bean sprout 23 July, 2008
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Here is the bean sprout my dear! Very cute hor…
Let’s see, today is Wednesday evening and it’s the first time I noticed the bean sprout. But it looks quite too long to have suddenly developed over the course of 1 day at work. So the conclusion is, it had been growing for 3 days, just that I hadn’t noticed it until today. Let’s recap.
Dear2 cooked green bean soup for us last Sunday (3 days ago) becos the weather was hot and we need to ‘cool down’. After finishing the tasty green bean soup, Dear2 washed the pot and I did noticed some green beans being stucked at the outlet. At that time, I didn’t give it any thought becos I assume it would be washed down the drain very soon. Never would I have imagined that it would sprout. Come to think of it, cooked green beans should be denatured and it couldn’t possibly sprout. That meant, the seeds of green I saw on Sunday night was probably fresh seeds that had fallen out during the earlier food preparation phase.
When I discovered the bean sprouts this evening, it was even standing upright and reaching for the sun. Upon lifting the sink filter, I noticed that the roots of the bean sprout was very long, about twice the length of the bean sprout itself and somewhat entangled with the lower sink outlet structure. Nevertheless, it came off quite easily and after inspection, there was no more bean sprout within the outlet.
This episode taught us a few things:
- Bean sprouts grow very quickly, 1 more day and I think it can be eaten. Makes sense for people who enjoy eating bean sprouts to plant their own.
- Bean sprouts are strong, they can grow in unfavourable conditions with only moisture as their nutrients. There was no cotton wool and the sun was so far away. This is really something we can learn, 豆芽的精神.
- Never ignore an innocent looking green bean seed in the kitchen sink and so always clean up the sink and filter properly after every washing.
Haha… This really reminded me about our primary school experiments where our teachers will ask us to grow some bean sprouts at home. It’s really quite interesting dear, dun faint lah. Gee… We are building up so many memories in our home, bit by bit. Muck!
-Dear1
From ‘Chore’ to ‘Core’ 12 July, 2008
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Wash clothes. Tidy the coffee table. Sweep the floor. Bring out laundry to sun. Cook lunch. Bake cookies. What a relaxing Saturday.
Last week, as Dear1 and Dear2 were casually chatting over dinner (Dear1 and Dear2 like to talk, talk about many things – current affairs, little happenings which Dear1 read from the internet, about life, about what we’ve done and what we like to do, about fashion, politics, food, the latest movie we’ve watched – everything under the sun), Dear1 opinioned that household chores should be done leisurely. But in this fast paced society of ours, ‘the working mum does not have time to slowly cook the dinner’. Dear2 has too fallen prey to the trap – household chores are routine and just have to be done, so what talk about enjoying the task!?
But hey, what Dear1 said made sense. You too can enjoy the chore. During the hanging out of laundry to dry, Dear1 applies Optimization Theory to determine the best permutation of sequencing which piece of clothe goes out on this tecko and that tecko. Oh boy. Dear1 is full of such This Theory and That Transform!
But seriously, if one can choose to handle the task with better enjoyment, the ‘chore’ can become a ‘core’ pleasure. Of course, when there is a deadline to meet, it’s about efficiency and time management. Other than that, why not take on these mundane tasks with ease and flair, and you too can have a relaxing Saturday.
Have a great weekend. Cheers.
- Dear2
A spoilt orange 4 July, 2008
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Dear dear… The orange that we bought 3 days ago from NTUC, spoil already. I wanted to eat 1 orange for breakfast this morning, so I took it out from the fridge and prepare to peel it by hand, then I saw this green and white patch. Faint! Why I always encounter spoilt things? That day also I ate the mouldy pandan cake. Huhuhu… Actually wanted to send an MMS to u, but I think you can also read it here, and I can type more things too. I really wanted to eat the orange one…
-Dear1

